WINGS has been created by victims/survivors who have suffered Child Sexual Abuse (CSA) within the fellowship of friends and workers, together with individuals who have been both directly and indirectly impacted by CSA.
Our objective is to provide information, support and guidance on every aspect of CSA and to support victims of CSA. Our ultimate hope is to encourage change within the fellowship in order to protect others from the devastation that occurs through CSA, especially when its impact is trivialized or ignored. Read more about us here.
Another website Breaking the Silence provides a message forum for:
- People who have been sexually abused as children
- People supporting those who have been abused
- People seeking to rid the church of abuse
Private sections of the forum are restricted to those who have suffered sexual abuse as children.
WINGS is also on Facebook
If you have been abused, or if you know someone else who has been abused, then you are empowered by the law, attitudes of society and by members of the fellowship to ‘break the silence.’ Speak out for your own healing and so other victims can be supported, perpetrators can be held accountable, and potential future cases prevented.
Your first steps can include confiding in a trusted friend or family member, contacting police, and lodging a confidential report on the Confidential Submission page.
This site provides some resources to help your journey of healing, but it is recognized that professional support and counselling may be required in many cases.
Jerome’s attorney filed a ”motion to dismiss.” During that hearing the Court found that “Mr Frandle is a member of the clergy as defined by the statute.” Since then the State of Michigan has dropped the substantive case. Court documents are available here.
Read the CSA Code of Conduct and discuss it with your fellow workers. It has been developed with the support of workers and members of the fellowship to
- Reduce the potential for child sexual abuse (CSA);
- Establish accepted processes to follow when there are allegations of child sexual abuse;
- Reduce the potential for false CSA allegations against workers; and
- Promote cooperative relationships with, and attitudes toward, law enforcement agencies, including the criminal justice and child protection systems.
It is not known at this time if this code has been approved or adopted by any overseer or if any other guidelines have been issued by any overseer. In the absence of any statement from overseers, this code exists as a guide to good practice for all friends and workers.
You should consider undertaking the Ministry Safe training course which has been implemented by several overseers.
This site may help you understand the terrible personal damage caused by CSA and what needs to be done to rid the fellowship of this curse. Read the CSA Code of Conduct and discuss it with your local workers. Voice your commitment to ridding the ministry and fellowship of CSA and to helping victims on the path to healing. Teach your children to say NO to inappropriate behavior and to report it to you. Learn how to respond to CSA disclosures from a child or adult.
We urge you to read through this website so YOU may have the knowledge to do the right thing